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  1. I walked past the black bookers street in Amsterdam's RLD about a month ago. It seemed much more quiet. I guess someone have told these black girls not to be so aggressive. I did not hear them yelling me a single time "hey come here! I have a question!" or I did not hear them hitting the window with a two euro coin which makes this noyin noise. Most black whores were ugly in my standards but this one girl who my friend fucked couple times a few years ago and fell in love was still in the end of the black street near grandmother hookers at the same spot. She is more like a Latin girl probably from south America and skinnier than black girls in this street. My friend said she was best hooked she ever fucked. I don't know her name but you will know who I'm talking about once you see her because she is the only pretty one om that street.


  2. There is now more transsexuals prostitutes in Amsterdam red light district than before. Couple more t - girls are working in new windows that are being established at the other side of the bridge near Casa Rosso sex theater. In Bloedstraat there is couple post operated transexuals also. One is very hot looking blond with tanned or colored brown shiny skin. She will give very good blow jobs for about 25 euro if she likes you.

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  3. Bulgaria is a country situated in Eastern Europe and has borders with Greece, Serbia, Macedonia, Romania and Turkey.


    Sex tourism is a multi-billion dollar worldwide industry that is largely unspoken about. However, millions of people around the world travel interstate or overseas in the search for sexual services – either paid for or free.


    Both men and women travel to Bulgaria for sex tourism and the number of Bulgaria sex tourists are fast on the rise. Not only is Bulgaria a beautiful country with much to offer any visitor – but it is also a very popular destination for sex tourists. In fact, it has been named by Men’s Health magazine as one of the top male sex tourism destinations in the world.


    The majority of Bulgaria sex tourists come from Europe and North America. With an increase in general tourism into Bulgaria the cost and frequency of flights has also increased in recent years. This has made it an affordable destination for sex tourists.


    Not only is it cheap to get to, but accommodation and sex services are notoriously a lot cheaper than surrounding countries – particularly those in Northern and Western Europe and the USA. Men’s Health magazine states that it costs around $200 per week to have a great sex tourism trip to Bulgaria.


    In many cases, one of the reasons why people are attracted to Bulgaria for sex tourism is because of their relaxed laws regarding prostitution and sexual activities in relation to other countries. Unlike the USA (and other countries), prostitution is not illegal in Bulgaria, however brothels and pimps are illegal.


    Due to the poor socioeconomic situation in Bulgaria and much of Eastern Europe, Bulgaria sex tourism has seen a drastic rise due to the high number of sex workers that exist around the country. It has become recognized as a sex tourism hot-spot in Eastern Europe.


    Bulgaria’s sex tourism industry is highly widespread, and there is not just one destination for sex tourists to visit while they are there. A large amount of Bulgaria’s sex tourism is centered around the red-light districts of major cities such as Sofia. One of the most famous and popular Bulgaria sex tourism destinations is Sunny Beach – a popular coastal resort. There are thousands of prostitutes and other sex workers based in Sunny Beach, many coming from surrounding countries and cities such as Ruse, Poland and Petrich.


    There are several resorts and hotels across Bulgaria that specifically cater for Bulgaria sex tourists. For example, there are several gay hotels in the capital of Sofia, including Scottys Hotel, which is run by gays and lesbians and allows guests to bring people into their rooms with no extra charge.


    There are also a range of strip clubs and resorts catering for female sex tourists, particularly in and around Sofia.



  4. Hungary has long been a popular sex tourism destination for people from around the world, and it has many attractions.


     


    Firstly, Hungary sex tourism is attractive to foreigners due to the infamous array of beautiful men and women that live and work there. Many of the sex workers arrive from Russia and Eastern European countries.


    With prostitution being legal in Hungary is it also very appealing to those that arrive from countries where prostitution is illegal – such as the USA. The Hungarian culture is very open to the sex industry and a lot more open minded than other countries.


     


    The cost of Hungarian sex tourism is also a lot cheaper than hiring prostitutes and other sex workers overseas. Many of the sex workers in Hungary come from poor backgrounds so will generally accept lower amounts of money for their services than other countries.


     


    Prostitution has been a big business in Hungary for hundreds of years, but it was largely underground until 1999 when it was legalized and is now regulated. This has led to a major increase in Hungary sex tourism.


    Budapest is not only the capital of Hungary but is also largely regarded as the sex capital of the world. There are few other places where you will find such a diverse array of sex shops, strip clubs, cabarets, pornography, prostitutes and more in one city.


     


    While most of Hungary sex tourism is based around Budapest, you will also find significant activities and attractions for sex tourists among the other towns and cities in Hungary. Since the legalization of prostitution the amount of brothels and prostitutes has increased immensely. Whereas prior to 1999 there were only 3 brothels in the whole of Hungary, there are now 250 in Budapest alone.


    There are also over 13,000 prostitutes working in just Budapest – so there is no shortage for Hungary sex tourists!


    Many Hungary sex tourists are starting to use the services of organized sex tour companies. Usually via the internet you can get into contact with businesses that specifically arrange and book Hungary sex tourism tours to ensure you make the most out of your vacation.


     


    The legal age of consent in Hungary is 14 years of age – for all sexual orientations and genders. If you are found to have sex with a person under the age of 14 when taking part in Hungary sex tourism you will face up to 5 years imprisonment as well as potential sanctions by your home country as well. Source dnd.com.pk



  5. Since the collapse of the Soviet Union, Ukraine has seen the rapid rise of a sex industry that is one of the largest in Europe. Ukraine is known as one of the world’s major exporters of prostitutes, who work all over the globe. Additionally, there is a large amount of local Ukrainian women who choose to stay at home and work in the domestic sex industry. Ukrainian girls have gained the stereotypical image of being blonde or brunette and having a good sexual appetite. To some extent, this stereotype is true, but there is much more to it that people may not be unaware of. Ukrainian sex tourism is simply when foreign tourists visit Ukraine for sexual encounters with local women. Ukraine has been struck hard by poverty since the early 1990s, and many females have desperately made their way into the sex industry including college and university students. Some estimates say that more than a quarter of the country’s women have worked as sex workers at one point in their lives. Sex tourism in Ukraine is very popular for tourists because it is much cheaper than upscale escort services in parts of Europe and America.


     


    Most of the tourists who visit Ukraine for sex tours are from Europe and North America. Italian and Turkish tourists are well known for seeking some “fun” encounters in Ukraine. They are frequent visitors because Ukraine is very close to Italy and Turkey. American and Canadian tourists are also notorious for seeking sex tours in Ukraine.


     


    On the other side of the Ukrainian sex tourism are the sex workers. Most of the sex workers are girls and women, but there is a small percentage of males available for homosexual sex. The age of female sex workers is typically between 20 and 40, while the male workers are much younger. It is also common to find older women working side by side with their younger relatives, sometimes even daughters.


     


    Many of the boys and girls involved in Ukraine’s sex tourism are minors. Prostitution is illegal in Ukraine so sex tourism is run through “I Love You” —you can find a woman in bar or pub and then you can intimate with her by saying you like her or love her and she does the same and then both can spend night or weeks together anywhere in the country. Since the sex industry provides a huge boost to the country’s economy, Ukraine mostly permits it despite the official laws that prohibit it. The reality is that visitors who participate in sex tourism have little to fear when it comes to legal consequences.


    Sex tourism is organized and operated by the Ukrainian underground, or mafia. Although there are plenty of street prostitutes, the internet is a major source for attracting foreign visitors. Websites that present escort services and brides usually offer organized sex tours. The websites are typically disguised as being legitimate to comply with local laws, so people really have to read into the details to find sexual encounters. After appointments have been set up, the meeting places are typically bars, massage parlors, saunas, nightclubs, and hotels. These are the rendezvous points where tourists usually meet up with the “brokers” first. After the encounter, the girls are presented and ready to work on site, or sometimes everyone must travel together to hotels. It is common for a single hotel to be booked with a dozen rooms that are reserved for sex.


     


    Most of Ukraine’s sex tourism takes place in Kiev and Odessa. Since Kiev is the capital and has a population of more than 2 million, it’s not surprising that it is at the center of the action. Odessa plays a unique role in the sex tourism because it has a waterfront location. Situated on the Black Sea, Odessa is a popular choice for many tourists who are looking to enjoy the beach, sea, and local girls. The seafront location also creates a sexual atmosphere, as sex workers walk around in swimsuits and are readily available for encounters in nearby hotels. Source dnd.com.pk



  6. A small country of eastern Europe —Latvia is leading sex tourism market while Ukraine stands at second position and Hungary at third position according to background interviews of consumers involved in sex tourism market.


     


    Latvia is one of Europe’s top sex tourism destinations as Latvia attracts millions of sex tourists from around the world every single year.


     


    Latvia sex tourism is particularly popular with British tourists who are looking for a place to find cheap sex, cheap alcohol, beautiful women and have a good time. In fact, with an increased number of budget airlines offering bargain flights into the capital of Riga, it has become a favorite destination for stag parties.


     


    The main attraction to Latvia sex tourism is that it is abundant and cheap. The sex industry is massive in Latvia so sex tourists have plenty of activities to choose from, whether it be strip clubs, massage parlors or prostitutes. The cost of sex-related products and services are incredibly cheap when compared to similar services from Western countries such as the USA and the UK.


     


    Finally, the sex culture has made a huge impact on the popularity of Latvia sex tourism. Prostitution is legal in Latvia, unlike in many other countries, and there is a very open attitude towards Latvia sex tourism. Latvia sex tourism is widespread across the country, however the majority of the industry is based in the capital city of Riga.


     


    While the historic city of Riga used to be a quiet and relaxed place, it has now been overtaken by Latvia sex tourism. There are hundreds of strip clubs, massage rooms, hostess bars and prostitutes lining the streets of Riga – making it every sex tourists paradise!


     


    All prostitutes working in Latvia must undergo monthly health checks as well as carry a health card with them at all times under law. Direct prostitution is legal while a third person to profit from the services of a prostitute (pimp or middleman) or running a brothel in Latvia is illegal so cost is very less as mostly there is no middleman involved in the business. Latvia sex tourism is very diverse and prostitutes cater for all tastes and sexual orientations! Homosexuality is legal in Latvia and there is an increasing demand for gay and lesbian Latvia sex tourism services. In recent years the number of female sex tourists has risen – creating a demand for male prostitutes in Latvia.


     


    The internet is the easiest place to find organized Latvia sex tours. You can research and book them online through the various websites before you arrive in Latvia. Source dnd.com.pk



  7. Reeperbahn Brothels

     

    There are quite many Brothels on the Reeperbahn. There is everything from mangy "staircase brothels" to decorated places. You can easily go to a brothel and sit and have a drink for a relatively cheap price without encountering any gangster owner. You may assume that the hookers will be on you like flies. This does however that these places are not as suitable as bar pubs.

     

    The so-called staircase brothels mentioned earlier is basically a stairwell of flats without front entrance doors. On the various floors are a number of girls which offers you to go inside "her place."

     

     

    Herbertstrasse Reeperbahn

     

    Herbertstraße (Herbert Strasse) is a street shielded from other streets with big planks. These fences are designed to protect younger crowd from view but there are openings at each end of the street where you can go through. This street is prohibited for women and younger people because there are prostitutes in shop windows which offers their services. The reason that it is forbidden for girls to go inside the perimeter is probably to keep street hookers away.

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    That is true. You have to really ask questions before you pay in Amsterdam RLD. It happened for me couple times when I have been drunk that I forgor to ask if I can fuck in more than one position. Once I started fucking the black whore in missionary position, I started to want to fuck her in doggy style, the all she said was 20 euros more for doggy. I was so pissed of.

     


  9. Window prostitution is distinct to the Netherlands. Until recently, there was also a tipple -zone (pick-up area) servicing the needs of clientele with cars. Utrecht, 30 minutes east of Amsterdam, has its own canal-based Red Light Area. Rotterdam has a number of sex clubs or private houses (privenhuizen) and smaller cities like Groningen and Alkmaar have also jumped on the red light bandwagon.


  10. Pimps feel safer posting ads than having women work the streets so that is why street prostitution is dying in San Diego. I think San Diego is safer than Tijuana when it comes to fucking, but Tijuana is still cheaper and there is way more options.


  11. Street prostitution has tamed in the Washington DC with changing demographics. Less parading up and down 14th Street near the White House. Street prostitutes fit in with the club crowd to avoid detection.


  12. The sex economy in Miami exceeds $300 million, quadrupling this year’s payroll for the Miami Heat basketball team. There’s an upswing in high-end escort services also offered for hundred or even thousands of dollars per hour. Foreign nationals are brought in to Miami from Eastern Europe. Miami is the gateway to the Americas. Latino-run brothels are prevalent. New prostitutes arrive in South Florida after stops in New York City and New Jersey. Chinese massage parlors replaced those advertising Hispanic women


  13. There is plenty of Asian massage studios in Seattle, so it is impossible to say where they are because they are everywhere!


    AMP´s in Seattle are organized massage parlors run foreign nationals with older prostitutes from South Korea, Vietnam and China.



  14. I've been to about 100 different Asian/Korean massage parlours all across the Canada and United States.


    Here are the ins and outs:


    Figuring out if it's a erotic massage parlour


    Here's a quick checklist to see if you're in a erotic massage parlour where you can get a happy ending, blow job or sex.


    • Charges $40-45/half hour or $49-70/one hour
    • Has curtains on the front windows. Usually fully covered windows
    • Has sometimes flashy lights on the windows.
    • No Credit Card (VISA/AMEX) signs on the front window
    • Has a asian sounding name
    • Most of the time open at least till about 9pm!

    You usually only need 3/5 of these to be sure it's a erotic massage parlour.


    Process


    You go inside, say I want a half hour or one hour massage. MamaSan or your therapist lead you to a massage room, you strip completely naked (if you keep your underwear on they might think you just want a regular massage!). Do not use the towel they provide to cover yourself. Basically you want them to find you on your stomach, naked. This signals to them that you know what's going on and you want erotic massage.


    Lady will then begin to massage you. First 15 minutes should be a legit good massage or some type of touching. Girl will then slowly start to massage your ass, and do little touches on your balls accidentally. This feels very amazing. Then they will ask you to turn around and at this point you turn around and show your possibly hard penis. Girl will massage your chest and front legs a bit, and then they will either point to your penis, ask "what else do you want", "do you want any extras", "do you want to finish happy ending", etc...


    They will often discuss the price for the extras at this point, or it they will expect a $20 tip at the end. Do not pay more than $20 extra for a hand job.


    You finish, they provide you a hot towel, and you leave happy!



  15. I've been to about 100 different Asian/Korean massage parlours all across the Canada and United States.


    Here are the ins and outs:


    Figuring out if it's a erotic massage parlour


    Here's a quick checklist to see if you're in a erotic massage parlour where you can get a happy ending, blow job or sex.


    • Charges $40-45/half hour or $49-70/one hour
    • Has curtains on the front windows. Usually fully covered windows
    • Has sometimes flashy lights on the windows.
    • No Credit Card (VISA/AMEX) signs on the front window
    • Has a asian sounding name
    • Most of the time open at least till about 9pm!

    You usually only need 3/5 of these to be sure it's a erotic massage parlour.


    Process


    You go inside, say I want a half hour or one hour massage. MamaSan or your therapist lead you to a massage room, you strip completely naked (if you keep your underwear on they might think you just want a regular massage!). Do not use the towel they provide to cover yourself. Basically you want them to find you on your stomach, naked. This signals to them that you know what's going on and you want erotic massage.


    Lady will then begin to massage you. First 15 minutes should be a legit good massage or some type of touching. Girl will then slowly start to massage your ass, and do little touches on your balls accidentally. This feels very amazing. Then they will ask you to turn around and at this point you turn around and show your possibly hard penis. Girl will massage your chest and front legs a bit, and then they will either point to your penis, ask "what else do you want", "do you want any extras", "do you want to finish happy ending", etc...


    They will often discuss the price for the extras at this point, or it they will expect a $20 tip at the end. Do not pay more than $20 extra for a hand job.


    You finish, they provide you a hot towel, and you leave happy!



  16. I've been to about 100 different Asian/Korean massage parlours all across the Canada and United States.


    Here are the ins and outs:


    Figuring out if it's a erotic massage parlour


    Here's a quick checklist to see if you're in a erotic massage parlour where you can get a happy ending, blow job or sex.


    • Charges $40-45/half hour or $49-70/one hour
    • Has curtains on the front windows. Usually fully covered windows
    • Has sometimes flashy lights on the windows.
    • No Credit Card (VISA/AMEX) signs on the front window
    • Has a asian sounding name
    • Most of the time open at least till about 9pm!

    You usually only need 3/5 of these to be sure it's a erotic massage parlour.


    Process


    You go inside, say I want a half hour or one hour massage. MamaSan or your therapist lead you to a massage room, you strip completely naked (if you keep your underwear on they might think you just want a regular massage!). Do not use the towel they provide to cover yourself. Basically you want them to find you on your stomach, naked. This signals to them that you know what's going on and you want erotic massage.


    Lady will then begin to massage you. First 15 minutes should be a legit good massage or some type of touching. Girl will then slowly start to massage your ass, and do little touches on your balls accidentally. This feels very amazing. Then they will ask you to turn around and at this point you turn around and show your possibly hard penis. Girl will massage your chest and front legs a bit, and then they will either point to your penis, ask "what else do you want", "do you want any extras", "do you want to finish happy ending", etc...


    They will often discuss the price for the extras at this point, or it they will expect a $20 tip at the end. Do not pay more than $20 extra for a hand job.


    You finish, they provide you a hot towel, and you leave happy!



  17. I've been to about 100 different Asian/Korean massage parlours all across the Canada and United States.


    Here are the ins and outs:


    Figuring out if it's a erotic massage parlour


    Here's a quick checklist to see if you're in a erotic massage parlour where you can get a happy ending, blow job or sex.


    • Charges $40-45/half hour or $49-70/one hour
    • Has curtains on the front windows. Usually fully covered windows
    • Has sometimes flashy lights on the windows.
    • No Credit Card (VISA/AMEX) signs on the front window
    • Has a asian sounding name
    • Most of the time open at least till about 9pm!

    You usually only need 3/5 of these to be sure it's a erotic massage parlour.


    Process


    You go inside, say I want a half hour or one hour massage. MamaSan or your therapist lead you to a massage room, you strip completely naked (if you keep your underwear on they might think you just want a regular massage!). Do not use the towel they provide to cover yourself. Basically you want them to find you on your stomach, naked. This signals to them that you know what's going on and you want erotic massage.


    Lady will then begin to massage you. First 15 minutes should be a legit good massage or some type of touching. Girl will then slowly start to massage your ass, and do little touches on your balls accidentally. This feels very amazing. Then they will ask you to turn around and at this point you turn around and show your possibly hard penis. Girl will massage your chest and front legs a bit, and then they will either point to your penis, ask "what else do you want", "do you want any extras", "do you want to finish happy ending", etc...


    They will often discuss the price for the extras at this point, or it they will expect a $20 tip at the end. Do not pay more than $20 extra for a hand job.


    You finish, they provide you a hot towel, and you leave happy!



  18. I've been to about 100 different Asian/Korean massage parlours all across the Canada and United States.


    Here are the ins and outs:


    Figuring out if it's a erotic massage parlour


    Here's a quick checklist to see if you're in a erotic massage parlour where you can get a happy ending, blow job or sex.


    • Charges $40-45/half hour or $49-70/one hour
    • Has curtains on the front windows. Usually fully covered windows
    • Has sometimes flashy lights on the windows.
    • No Credit Card (VISA/AMEX) signs on the front window
    • Has a asian sounding name
    • Most of the time open at least till about 9pm!

    You usually only need 3/5 of these to be sure it's a erotic massage parlour.


    Process


    You go inside, say I want a half hour or one hour massage. MamaSan or your therapist lead you to a massage room, you strip completely naked (if you keep your underwear on they might think you just want a regular massage!). Do not use the towel they provide to cover yourself. Basically you want them to find you on your stomach, naked. This signals to them that you know what's going on and you want erotic massage.


    Lady will then begin to massage you. First 15 minutes should be a legit good massage or some type of touching. Girl will then slowly start to massage your ass, and do little touches on your balls accidentally. This feels very amazing. Then they will ask you to turn around and at this point you turn around and show your possibly hard penis. Girl will massage your chest and front legs a bit, and then they will either point to your penis, ask "what else do you want", "do you want any extras", "do you want to finish happy ending", etc...


    They will often discuss the price for the extras at this point, or it they will expect a $20 tip at the end. Do not pay more than $20 extra for a hand job.


    You finish, they provide you a hot towel, and you leave happy!



  19. I've been to many different Asian/Korean massage parlours all across the Canada and United States.


     


    Here are some important thing for beginner to know:


     


    Figuring out if it's a erotic massage parlour


     


    Here's a quick checklist to see if you're in a erotic massage parlour where you can get a happy ending, blow job or sex.


    • Charges $40-45/half hour or $49-70/one hour
    • Has sometimes flashy lights on the windows.
    • Has curtains on the front windows. Usually fully covered windows
    • Has a asian sounding name
    • No Credit Card (VISA/AMEX) signs on the front window
    • Most of the time open at least till about 9pm!

    You usually only need 3/5 of these to be sure it's a erotic massage parlour.


    Process


    You go inside, say I want a half hour or one hour massage. MamaSan or your therapist lead you to a massage room, you strip completely naked (if you keep your underwear on they might think you just want a regular massage!). Do not use the towel they provide to cover yourself. Basically you want them to find you on your stomach, naked. This signals to them that you know what's going on and you want erotic massage.


    Lady will then begin to massage you. First 15 minutes should be a legit good massage or some type of touching. Girl will then slowly start to massage your ass, and do little touches on your balls accidentally. This feels very amazing. Then they will ask you to turn around and at this point you turn around and show your possibly hard penis. Girl will massage your chest and front legs a bit, and then they will either point to your penis or touch it and ask "what else do you want", "do you want extra", "do you want happy ending", etc...


    Girls will often discuss the price for the extras at this point, or if not, they will expect a $20 tip at the end. Do not pay more than $20 extra for a hand job! Usually tips for blow-job are about $40-60 and for sex $50-100.


    You finish, they provide you a hot towel, and you leave happy!


     


    You can also read another good Massage Parlo Guide from WikiSexGuide: http://www.wikisexguide.com/wiki/Massage_Parlor_Etiquette



  20. I've been to many different Asian/Korean massage parlours all across the Canada and United States.


     


    Here are some important thing for beginner to know:


     


    Figuring out if it's a erotic massage parlour


     


    Here's a quick checklist to see if you're in a erotic massage parlour where you can get a happy ending, blow job or sex.


    • Charges $40-45/half hour or $49-70/one hour
    • Has sometimes flashy lights on the windows.
    • Has curtains on the front windows. Usually fully covered windows
    • Has a asian sounding name
    • No Credit Card (VISA/AMEX) signs on the front window
    • Most of the time open at least till about 9pm!

    You usually only need 3/5 of these to be sure it's a erotic massage parlour.


    Process


    You go inside, say I want a half hour or one hour massage. MamaSan or your therapist lead you to a massage room, you strip completely naked (if you keep your underwear on they might think you just want a regular massage!). Do not use the towel they provide to cover yourself. Basically you want them to find you on your stomach, naked. This signals to them that you know what's going on and you want erotic massage.


    Lady will then begin to massage you. First 15 minutes should be a legit good massage or some type of touching. Girl will then slowly start to massage your ass, and do little touches on your balls accidentally. This feels very amazing. Then they will ask you to turn around and at this point you turn around and show your possibly hard penis. Girl will massage your chest and front legs a bit, and then they will either point to your penis or touch it and ask "what else do you want", "do you want extra", "do you want happy ending", etc...


    Girls will often discuss the price for the extras at this point, or if not, they will expect a $20 tip at the end. Do not pay more than $20 extra for a hand job! Usually tips for blow-job are about $40-60 and for sex $50-100.


    You finish, they provide you a hot towel, and you leave happy!


     


    You can also read another good Massage Parlo Guide from WikiSexGuide: http://www.wikisexguide.com/wiki/Massage_Parlor_Etiquette


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  21. Paying For Sex: Cheaper Than Ever

     

    BERLIN (AP) — It's past midnight in downtown Berlin, and the prostitutes pace in front of the Hackescher Markt's stores.

    Signs of a slow economy are everywhere — a sportswear store offers 40 percent markdowns, and bars advertise discounted drinks.

     

    Like so many other businesses, Europe's largest legalized prostitution industry is having to adapt to the economic downturn. Customers are fewer or more frugal, competition has increased, and more clubs and brothels are offering discounts to drum up business.

     

    Since late 2008, the number of English and American tourists has dropped and the street dynamic has changed, according to one prostitute in her mid-20s who requested anonymity because she did not want her family to know her profession. She still gets customers, she said, but they no longer pay for the extras.

     

    "We have to be a lot more aggressive now," said the woman, wearing pink jeans and a black corset, who has worked the area for three years. "The customers used to come straight to you. Now they don't ask you as much."

     

    Nevertheless, she said, the prostitutes in the area have been sticking to a set minimum price — about euro80 ($110) for sex.

     

    "If he doesn't pay our prices then he can't go home with me," she said, putting her hands on her hips. "That simple."

     

    Prostitution is legal in Germany, with the same rights and benefits as other professions, such as health and unemployment insurance. There are about 450,000 prostitutes nationwide, according to 2008 numbers, with 10,000 in Berlin. Streetwalkers like those in the Hackescher Markt make up only about 3 percent, with the remaining 97 percent working in brothels, massage parlors or out of private residences.

     

    Though the demand for prostitutes' services remains strong, the supply has increased as more people lose their jobs and turn to the profession, said Marion Detlefs, of the German prostitution advocacy group Hydra. The result is increased competition, she said.

     

    In response, clubs and brothels are increasingly marketing themselves either as high-class, exclusive spas, or as bargain basements of delight.

     

    The capital's biggest bordello, Artemis, is one of the former, with a wide variety of attractions. For an entry fee of euro80, guests gain access to a gym, free buffet, a pool and two erotic cinemas. The sex costs extra — euro60 ($83) for 30 minutes, with set prices for a menagerie of other sexual services. On any given day, the bordello has 60 to 90 women working, said manager Vanessa Rahn.

     

    Jenna, 30, a soft-spoken bottle blonde who works there, left a job in hotel hospitality to become a prostitute two years ago.

     

    "It wasn't a very fun job, and I wanted to try something more interesting and fun," she said, requesting that her last name not be used.

     

    Jenna said she hasn't seen a decrease in the number of her daily customers — usually about 10 men — but they have grown increasingly frugal. She also noted a drop in businessmen customers as fewer attend meetings at a nearby conference center.

     

    "This is what the girls have been complaining about," Rahn said. "The number of customers is pretty much the same, but men only go once or twice to rooms, not three or four times, like before."

     

    However, Artemis is working hard at bringing in customers through incentives such as discount cards and lowered prices for taxi drivers and senior citizens. The incentives have meant an increase in the number of regular customers, Rahn said.

     

    At the other end of the spectrum is Berlin's Pussy Club bordello, which has branches in Heidelberg and Wuppertal.

    It opened in mid-2008 with a focus on the discount-minded customer, offering an "all you can sex" flat-rate. For between euro70 and euro100, depending upon the time of day, customers can enjoy any sexual services with an unlimited number of women. For their work, the women are also paid a flat-rate wage.

     

    "All the girls get a daily wage of euro100 to euro250 ($140 to $347), so they don't have to worry about money, which is good in this working atmosphere," manager Patricia Floreiou said in an e-mailed reply to questions. She noted a steady increase in applications since the Pussy Club's opening, attributing this in part to the bordello's flat-rate salary.

     

    "Many women in other clubs aren't earning enough anymore, and we offer steady, secure money."

    Floreiou said the pricing structure has helped the bordello avoid any problems, despite the global market downturn, and that the number of customers has not gone down.

     

    Back in Hackescher Markt, the American-German prostitute said she was thinking of a change in location, as she bent down to retie the laces on knee-high black patent leather boots with five-inch platform heels. She is planning to head soon to the U.S. to work in East Coast strip clubs, saying there was still ample work there, as well.

     

    "I make more in one night just dancing than on the streets here," she said.

     

    Artemis' Jenna, meanwhile, said she will eventually return to the quieter life working for hotels, but that she is in no rush to leave the high pay and dependability of prostitution.

     

    "This type of job will always be in existence," she said. "People will always have money for fun."

     

    Source: uk.askmen.com

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  22. Germany Has Become the Cut-Rate Prostitution Capital of the World

     

    By Brad Tuttle

     

    The presence of thousands of brothels and hundreds of thousands of prostitutes has heightened competition and pushed prices down steeply in the German sex trade. One tourist from Florida, who visits the country three times annually to pay for cheap sex, compares the scene to a discount supermarket: “Germany is like Aldi for prostitutes,” he says.

     

    Prostitution became legal in Germany in 2002, and the open sex trade has taken off in the years since. There are reportedly around 3,000 red-light establishments in the country, and 500 brothels in Berlin alone. It’s been estimated that more than 1 million men pay for sex in Germany every day.

     

    One of the classic arguments for legalizing prostitution is that recognizing and regulating the world’s oldest profession would improve the conditions of sex workers. Instead, recent reports paint legalized prostitution in Germany largely as a failure.

     

    In May, Der Spiegel published a series of stories highlighting the atrocious conditions endured by prostitutes in Germany, some of whom say they arrived in the country against their will. Typically, the stories involve young women from Romania and Bulgaria who were unwittingly duped into coming to Germany, where they were forced to service dozens of men daily in flat-rate deals where customers can have all the sex they want for an allotted time period, starting at just €49 (around $65). The women say customers are known to take drugs to improve their sexual performance in order to get their money’s worth. Some women report getting paid a pittance and never being allowed to leave their brothels. During rare breaks from work, they share a room with other prostitutes, where there is a single bed and no other furniture.

     

    In early June, a documentary aired on ARD, Germany’s public-broadcasting station, called Sex — Made in Germany. The film was made in part by bringing hidden cameras into brothels over the course of two years. “Sex is cheaper than anywhere else,” one brothel owner in Berlin says on camera. “Germany is the biggest whorehouse in Europe, no question,” a Danish brothel customer notes, according to Die Welt.

     

    Germany’s prostitution scene has attracted visitors from around the world. Specialty tour operators have been booking groups of men from Asia, the Middle East and North America on “sex tourism” trips to Germany for years. As more men and money have flowed into the country thanks to prostitution, more and more women have arrived to serve them with the hopes of making a decent living. Instead, what seems to have happened is that the brothels have been aggressively competing with one another for business, and prices have plummeted. Alia, a 23-year-old prostitute working in Cologne, related the following account to Der Spiegel:

     

    The going rate for oral sex and intercourse used to be €40 [$54] on Geestemünder Strasse. But when the nearby city of Dortmund closed its streetwalking area, more women came to Cologne, says Alia. ‘There are more and more women now, and they drop their prices so that they’ll make something at all,’ she complains. Bulgarian and Romanian women sometimes charge less than €10 [$13], she says. ‘One woman here will even do it for a Big Mac.’

     

    An English-language news site in Germany called The Local interviewed a 39-year-old man from Florida named Andrew about his brothel-frequenting habits. He said he originally visited Germany in his mid-20s because he was interested in the car culture and the history, but has since kept coming back three times annually because prostitution is legal and the prostitutes are so affordable. He even compared the marketplace for the world’s oldest profession to a discount grocery chain:

     

    ‘There’s a risk of being arrested in the U.S., but not here,’ he said. ‘And it’s cheaper. Germany is like Aldi for prostitutes.’

     

    Twenty minutes with a woman in Frankfurt costs as little as €20 [$27], he said. ‘This is more than enough time,’ he admitted.

     

    Despite the critics’ claims of atrocious conditions brought on by legalized prostitution in Germany, there are many who don’t want to go back to the days when the trade was cordoned off in the black market. “Prostitution is still socially stigmatized, and that has not changed in the few years in which the law has been in effect,” Monika Lazar, a spokeswoman on women’s issues for the Alliance 90/Greens party, said, according to the Guardian. “But the law is helping to strengthen the position of prostitutes and ensuring women, and men, are much better protected.”

     

    Source: business.time.com

  23. Thought it was just men who flew abroad for squalid sexual kicks? Meet the middle-aged, middle-class women who are Britain's female sex tourists

     

    By JULIE BINDEL, PUBLISHED: 23:56 GMT, 25 August 2013

     

     

    They are called ‘bumsters’ in Gambia, ‘Rastitutes’ or ‘beach boys’ in the Caribbean and ‘sanky pankies’ in the Dominican Republic. 

    These are the men who, in increasing numbers, are providing sex in return for money or goods to women who want a holiday ‘romance’.

    The men are invariably from impoverished families, have little or no education and are sometimes illiterate.

     

    Most of the women are white, middle-aged or older and come from Europe and North America. 

    They travel alone or with female friends and often have a history of unhappy relationships with men at home.

    They are looking for attention and excitement but end up, often without realising it, being one half of a prostitution deal.

    Barbara is one such woman. In her late 50s and divorced, she travelled to Jamaica for her first holiday alone last winter. She had fantasies about sunbathing on white sand and swimming in a clear blue sea, but no plans for a holiday romance.

    Her destination was an all-inclusive resort in Negril, on the western tip of Jamaica, one of the biggest destinations for female sex tourism.

     

    ‘I got off the plane at Montego Bay and — boom! — there he was,’ she tells me over the phone from her home city of Sheffield. 

    ‘I have never seen a man as fit as Chris. His dreadlocks were down his back and his legs were like a footballer’s. I thought: “Why is he looking at me like he fancies me? I’m not his type.”’

    Soon Barbara threw aside her inhibitions and realised she could behave in a way she would never dare to at home.

    ‘It was like total freedom. Chris was all over me and I couldn’t get enough of that beautiful body,’ she says. 

    ‘He showered me with compliments about my legs, my hair, how I smelled, everything. He even said he liked my accent.’

    Barbara’s previous marriage had been abusive and damaging, leaving her feeling, as she puts it, ‘worthless and like no man would ever look at me again’.

    She says: ‘Chris made me feel gorgeous and special straight away.’ 

    Yet this was the beginning of not a holiday romance but a commercial exchange between a relatively rich Westerner and an impoverished ‘beach boy’.

    It is prostitution, but often only the seller, and not the buyer, is aware of that. 

    Barbara realised Chris viewed her as a sex tourist only when one day he told her, ‘No money, no sex’, after she refused to give him cash for a drug deal.

     

    Barbara, like many women who find ‘romance’ in Negril, says she is shunned by men of her own age in the UK, ‘because they want thinner, younger women and for some reason can get them’. 

    Over the past decade, I have been researching the increase in female sex tourism in underdeveloped and poorer countries. 

    I made contact with Barbara through a social networking site where I had discovered women exchanging details about long-distance romances with men in Jamaica.

    Not one of the women used the phrase ‘sex tourism’, but most of them discussed how they had sent money to their ‘boyfriends’ to pay an urgent debt or to rent accommodation in time for their next visit.

    None would give me their full names, because their friends and family members are not aware they have been going abroad for sex.

    ‘Chris moved into my hotel room with me and we had wild sex every night,’ Barbara says.

    ‘At first, he insisted on paying for everything, but after a couple of days he said he was owed money by a business contact and I had to bankroll him until it came through.’

    Barbara is on an administrator’s salary in the UK, but one evening in her £120-a-night hotel would cost any of its own porters four weeks’ wages. 

    ‘Chris never got that money he was owed,’ she says. ‘I ended up paying for everything and once, when I refused, he told me he could pick up any white woman he wanted who would be happy to give him money.’

    Despite this, she remained under the illusion until the end of her holiday that Chris was her boyfriend.

    She says now: ‘If he pretended to fancy me when we were together and just slept with me for money, does that make him a prostitute — or just a lying b*****d?’

    The stereotypical image of the sex tourist is a Western man who travels to Thailand or the Philippines to pay for sex with young women and even children.

    But in the past three decades the numbers of women travelling primarily for sex with local men is thought to have increased significantly.

    The practice has become less stigmatised, and tour operators even add thinly veiled references to sex tourism for women as a marketing strategy.

    Racial difference plays a significant role in the female sex tourist experience (posed by model) +3

    Racial difference plays a significant role in the female sex tourist experience (posed by model)

    Phrases such as ‘fantasy island’ are bandied about, feeding off a mythology about male sexual prowess, perpetuated by the beach boys themselves because it’s good for business.

    It is not just sex the women are seeking, though. Academic researchers often class women such as Barbara as ‘romance tourists’, as they usually believe the men they meet on holiday are in love with them.

    Middle-aged and older women with low self-esteem and a history of failed relationships are more likely to fall for the delusion.

    In the film Shirley Valentine, the central character travels to a Greek island craving love, attention and genuine emotional attachment. 

    The reality of sex tourism is very different.

    I have visited Negril. The resort’s biggest attraction for tourists is its four miles of stunning white sand. 

    It has a population of almost 6,000 and is host to travellers from all over the world. 

    American spring break students arrive between March and April, and Europeans and North Americans during the winter months.

    In 2008, an estimated 351,404 tourists came, making up approximately 20 per cent of Jamaica’s total. 

    Since then, the numbers have continued to rise, according to the Jamaica Tourist Board.

    The beach boys I met in Negril were all desperately poor and vulnerable, yet outwardly confident and hyper-masculine at the same time.

    I spent several days with one of them, Clinton, during which he never stopped trying to get me to have sex with him. 

    When I asked why he ‘dated’ only older women, he said: ‘If I take a tourist out and she wants to help me out as a friend, give me money and let me stay with her in the hotel, what’s wrong with that? Of course I have sex with them, but that’s because I’m not gay — I like women.’

    I asked Clinton what he looked for in a woman and he told me: ‘I look for the milk bottles (white women who have obviously just arrived on the island).’

    Most of the beach bars advertise cocktails with names that are well-used euphemisms for a large penis, such as ‘Big Bamboo’, ‘Dirty Banana’ and ‘Jamaican Steel’. 

    I was on the island during spring break and Negril was thronged with young, conventionally attractive, bikini-clad female students — but the beach boys paid no attention to them at all.

    At night, in bars playing loud reggae, young men would pull older white women to their feet and show them how to do ‘dirty dancing’, by way of ‘introducing them to my body’, as one man told me.

    It was an unusual sight — women, some in their 70s, bumping and grinding with men young enough to be their grandsons and drinking Red Stripe beer out of cans.

    ‘I was sick of the men on offer back home,’ says Linda, when I speak to her on Skype, having made contact with her through the same social network on which I found Barbara. 

    Linda is a Londoner who runs a pub with her daughter. She has a ‘string of failed relationships’ behind her.

    ‘They were all the bloody same,’ she says. ‘Expect you to treat them like God’s gift, treat you like you don’t matter and never consider what it is you want. 

    'The men I have been with (in Turkey) are a damn sight more handsome than they are and yet treat me like they’re grateful to be with me — the opposite of what I’m used to.’

     

    Barbara and Linda are in good company. Each year, as many as 600,000 women from Western countries are said to engage in sex tourism. (The statistics in this area are little better than guesswork, given that few would confess to engaging in the practice in a self-reporting survey, but the figures for men are thought to be many times greater.)

    In 2001, research based on 240 interviews with women on the beaches of Negril and two similar resorts in the Dominican Republic suggested that almost a third had engaged in sexual relationships  with local men in the course of their holiday.

    Of those 80 women, nearly 60 per cent admitted there were ‘economic elements’ to their relationships, but they did not think of themselves as sex tourists, or their sexual partners as prostitutes. 

    Only 3 per cent said their relations were ‘purely physical’, and more than half considered them to be about ‘romance’.

    According to the beach boys, there is little shame or stigma in selling sex to older white female tourists, and some claim earning money this way affirms their masculinity.

    At the same time, the comments I heard in Jamaica about the women seen with younger men were often misogynistic and cruel — there is far more acceptance of older, obese men partnering conventionally attractive younger women than  the reverse.

    One young man told me the white women he had sex with made him feel sick. 

    ‘They stink, have rough skin and look like old dogs. No wonder they have to pay for a man.’

    A hotelier told me the women were ‘all ugly and fat’. 

    ‘Men won’t touch them where they come from,’ he added. ‘I would be ashamed to be seen with any of them.’

    Some female sex tourists who move to live permanently with Jamaican men are beaten or abused.

     

    Barbara and Linda are in good company. Each year, as many as 600,000 women from Western countries are said to engage in sex tourism. (The statistics in this area are little better than guesswork, given that few would confess to engaging in the practice in a self-reporting survey, but the figures for men are thought to be many times greater.)

    In 2001, research based on 240 interviews with women on the beaches of Negril and two similar resorts in the Dominican Republic suggested that almost a third had engaged in sexual relationships  with local men in the course of their holiday.

    Of those 80 women, nearly 60 per cent admitted there were ‘economic elements’ to their relationships, but they did not think of themselves as sex tourists, or their sexual partners as prostitutes. 

    Only 3 per cent said their relations were ‘purely physical’, and more than half considered them to be about ‘romance’.

    According to the beach boys, there is little shame or stigma in selling sex to older white female tourists, and some claim earning money this way affirms their masculinity.

    At the same time, the comments I heard in Jamaica about the women seen with younger men were often misogynistic and cruel — there is far more acceptance of older, obese men partnering conventionally attractive younger women than  the reverse.

    One young man told me the white women he had sex with made him feel sick. 

    ‘They stink, have rough skin and look like old dogs. No wonder they have to pay for a man.’

    A hotelier told me the women were ‘all ugly and fat’. 

    ‘Men won’t touch them where they come from,’ he added. ‘I would be ashamed to be seen with any of them.’

    Some female sex tourists who move to live permanently with Jamaican men are beaten or abused.

     

    Andrea Johnson, a corporal with the Negril police, told me: ‘The relationship ends up sour and we have to intervene.

    'I’ve seen some nasty domestic violence towards the white women who move in with their boyfriends.’

    Dawn, a regular visitor to Negril, says: ‘They often talk about white women as if we are old slappers. 

    'I used to think Derrick was respectful of me and really loved me, until I heard him laughing with the other boys one night. It turned my blood cold.’

    Dawn met Derrick on her first trip to Negril in 2006 and has since returned twice a year to spend time with him. Derrick is now 27 and Dawn is 30 years older than him.

    ‘I fell head over heels with him when we first met and he couldn’t get enough of me, but I’m not daft,’ she says. 

    ‘I knew he was as keen on my money as he was on me but they have nothing here and live like paupers.’

    Once a month, Dawn sends Derrick £20 for food and when she visits the island she pays for everything, from meals, drinks and taxis to clothes and spending money.

    ‘What do I get out of it?’ she says. ‘A lot of fun, and a beautiful body to have my wicked way with whenever I want.’

    Racial difference plays a significant role in the female sex tourist experience. White women who would never consider being openly involved with a young black man back home feel free to do so while travelling and often use this as an example of their ‘anti-racism’.

    However, the same women will often treat their ‘boyfriend’ as little more than a servant.

    There is still a tendency to focus on the men as exploiting tourist women economically, emotionally or sexually, rather than being exploited by them. Yet there certainly is exploitation on both sides.

    The sex tourism problem has become so great in some countries that there have been half-hearted efforts to reduce it. 

    During the 2002-2003 tourist season, the Gambian law-enforcement agencies, in collaboration with the national tourism association, launched an ‘anti-bumster’ campaign.

    Uniformed security personnel rounded up obvious-looking bumsters, shaved off their dreadlocks and began routinely patrolling the tourist areas along the coast. A similar initiative has since been tried in Negril.

    But the women travelling for sex and love are not being deterred, and nor are the impoverished young men who have only their own bodies to sell.

     

    Source: dailymail.co.uk

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